Warning Signs that Your Senior will May Need Assisted Living Soon

At some point in our lives we all face the inevitable fact that our loved ones are getting older. Whether it is a parent or another close family member or friend, it can often be a source of great stress to know the right time for them to transition into other safer living arrangements. But it doesn’t have to be that way.

Functional decline of the elderly is a natural progression of age. According to the National Survey of Geriatricians, it is often defined and measured “by a reduction in the ability to perform self-care of activities of daily living (ADL) due to a decrease of physical or cognitive functioning.”

It is never easy, but here are some things to look for to help determine when it’s time to make the change.

Their Needs are Escalating

A good question to ask yourself is, “Are their needs beyond my ability to meet them?” If you answered yes, it may be time to transition them into assisted living.

Potential Hazards

If there is any question about their safety in your care, such as slipping and falling, losing balance, or something as simple as leaving the stove top on, this is another signal. While you want them to remain as independent as possible, accidents can still happen.

Medication Management

Often times, it is critical for your loved one to take their prescribed medication, each and every day. When the danger of missing a day, and then two, begins to be too great of a risk, and you are not sure you can stay vigilant for them, it is time to seek help.

Living Large

If your loved one is currently living alone, the day-to-day management of even a small home, let alone a larger one, can be overwhelming and become a great burden to them.

Stress on the Caregiver

You may find yourself a caregiver for them, only to realize that it is putting undue stress on your own life. This is when the cost of caregiving becomes too high – emotionally and financially – and it is time to move a loved one into assisted living.

If you are feeling isolated or alone, unable to make time for social events, and begin to feel resentful towards your loved one, this isa clear sign for a need for change. These feelings can be exacerbated by lack of sleep, or guilt that you are “not doing enough.” Even temporary help can alleviate your stress until you regroup and figure out what is best for the road ahead.

One of the best things you can do is to be proactive and have an honest discussion with your loved one far in advance of the warning signs. Talk to them about the desires and wishes they have for later in life. Try to come to some sort of understanding on what they would want. Research the best assisted living homes in your area, based on your situation. That way, when the time does come, they will not be blindsided when they are suddenly taken from their homes into an unfamiliar environment.

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Braden Bills
2 months ago

My mom has been having a hard time living on her own, and we’re not sure what to do. It makes sense that assisted living would be beneficial for her! She could definitely use the help in her day to day life. I’ll make sure that we still love her when trying to transition her.

Lyla Peterson
2 months ago

I’m glad you mentioned that if they are struggling to keep up with medications and you can’t help them enough, it may be time for assisted living. My mother is becoming more forgetful in her old age, so she frequently forgets to take her medications for her hypertension and other conditions. Since I work full time and live 30 minutes away, I can’t visit her every day. I will start looking into assisted living facilities in the area.

tyler johnson
1 month ago

That’s a good idea to make sure that you assess your ability to help them out. I wouldn’t want my parents to not get the help they n3eed to live comfortably, so it would be good to try and get them that help if I can’t provide it. I’ll have to recommend that they look into assisted living if they ever get to that point.

Franklin White
1 month ago

Thanks for the advice to have your elderly loved ones in assisted living if you can’t meet their needs. This will help you not stress out as much too. A professional will take care of them and make sure they are okay so that you only have to worry about visiting them every once in a while.

Braden Bills
1 month ago

My mom has been having a hard time taking her medicine, and I feel like that could be dangerous. It makes sense that it would be a good idea to get her to an assistance living location! That seems like a good way to ensure that she gets the help that she needs.

Russell Mortensen
27 days ago

I love that you talked about finding a place for them if they start to forget smaller things too, like the stove being left on. My grandpa is getting older and he needs to find a place to live that can help him. That way, we don’t have to worry about his safety or health while he is alone.